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Cake day: June 3rd, 2025
  • You need a lawyer, from a firm with experience in international law, specific for both countries. Google one, you talk to them, give them the facts, and they’ll see if there’s any way. Do NOT try to self-help this, that is likely to end up poorly for you and/or the child. If you can’t afford a lawyer, start earning and saving now, doing it right in 5 years is better than fucking anything up asap. If you can’t save money for one, you go kick rocks.

  • I can (mostly intentionally) zonk out pretty quickly in most sitting or laying positions. Clear calm mind helps me. I might use 1 of 2 exercises. The first I started using is for when my mind is too active from the day and thoughts just keep popping up, each time one does, I imagine putting it in a cardboard box, closing it up and tossing it away. The second one I use more when my body is physically tired, but I’m not mentally sleepy, I imagine I’m laying down at the trunk of an impossibly tall tree, looking at a single leaf near the edge that I can just barely make out, then imagine I’m rapidly floating up where I can see the trunk rapidly moving “down” behind my head, but the leaf just only so very barely seems to get any closer, and just keep that up until I fall asleep.